Style Ideas for African American Women- 1st Day of Winter 2012-2013

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Outfit Elements:

1. The Crown- I’m wearing a hat from H&M. Since I have shorter hair, when I wear hats, I wrap a scarf underneath the hat to give the hat a heightened look.

2. Manicure- I like dark polishes. I have on China Glaze’s first mate color. It is a wonderful blue color. I am not a big fan of the quality of the polish. It chips easily. 1st and last time I’ll buy it!

3. Make-up- not into, mascara, foundation, blushes, etc. However, I really like tinted lips so I often wear a light coat of lipstick. I like Iman’s brandy. Very nice.

4. Jewelry- Black wooden jewelry is my thing. Got the necklace from a consignment store circa 2007 and have only worn it a few times. Just starting to get into into. The pink on the right side of the necklace matches the hot pink skirt perfectly! The rings I got from City Buddha for very cheap, like $1.95-2.98/ring. The bracelets are a treasure that I got from a friend from Guinea. He sells them at fairs, festivals, etc. They were about $25 for both. They are made from the tusks of an elephant. Actually, I think they can run up to $25 a piece or more in some places. They are worth it. Love them. My fav in the jewelry chest.

5. Skirt- Hot pink from Forever 21. $6.

6. Sweater- TJMaxx– Clearance price $10.

7. Stockings- Not sure (maybe from Target on sale?)

8. Shoes- Kohls. $24.

Queen Duafe for African Essence

Style Ideas for Sistahs- 2012-2013

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Outfit Elements:

1. The Crown- Early stages of locs. I loved my hair this year. It took 3 months to lock. I washed it myself once a week. I did not twist it much because I liked the roots thick and I liked the new growth to show- I’ve always liked rugged locs.

2. Manicure- Clear polish.

3. Make-up- not into, mascara, foundation, blushes, etc. However, I really like tinted lips so I often wear a light coat of lipstick. I like Iman’s brandy. Very nice.

4. Jewelry- Gold jewelry. Bangles- Forever 21, ring- consignment shop, earrings, Indian & African clothing store circa 2006; watch- a booth in the mall (can’t remember name)

5. Dress- Dillard’s

6. Jacket- Dillard’s

7. Socks- Marshall’s

8. Book- My fav book from college: Before the Mayflower

9. Shoes- DSW circa 2009

Queen Duafe for African Essence

Style Ideas for Sistahs- Fall & Winter

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My colorful life…

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Outfit Elements:

1. The Crown- Early stages of locs. I loved my hair this year. It took 3 months to lock. I washed it myself once a week. I did not twist it much because I liked the roots thick and I liked the new growth to show- I’ve always liked rugged locs.

2. Manicure- I like dark polishes but I have on OPI’s big apple red. It was leftover from a wedding I was in. I actually ended up loving it a whole it!

3. Make-up- not into, mascara, foundation, blushes, etc. However, I really like tinted lips so I often wear a light coat of lipstick. I like Iman’s brandy. Very nice.

4. Jewelry- Black wooden jewelry is my thing. Got the necklace from a dollar store years ago. Got the bracelet from a table at an African street fair for a few dollars.

5. Dress- bought this from an Indian gift shop years ago.

6. Sweater- TJMaxx

7. Leggings- Not sure.

8. Belt- Came with an outfit I got from JCP (sort of a cheap material, not my fav)

9. Shoes- DSW circa 2009

Queen Duafe for African Essence

Musik for the Soul – TUPAC remembered

I am a poet. I love to manipulate words into messages. For me, the process of writing can be magical and extremely therapeutic. I have an appetite for expression. My expression is not like A FB status update, or a tweet, not even a profile change on LinkedIn. It’s more like having a conversation with a person who is willing to listen and with a person who is willing to share. It is not posting a YouTube video, it is coming into real contact with people everyday and knowing what to say to them and looking into their eyes and seeing my own reflection.

It’s hard to judge anyone. Many of us are in pain and we hurt others attempting to find peace. In finding this peace, we end up creating more pain, brokenhearted  We need to learn how to stop this dangerous process of victimization. It is a bad habit in many of the people’s lives that I am in contact with. Men and women seem not  to want to take responsibility for the failed relationships in their lives. Quick to point the finger, we create unnecessary enemies and label them “haters.” Haters is only one of the names- hypocrites, bullshitters, fake posers, speculators… so many names, but the bottom line is always the same. The problem, the common denominator is you. Is it too much for us to correct our own deviant and harmful behaviors before we start pointing and talking behind backs trying to rally comrades because we are too afraid to stand alone.

Does this sound like you? Well its time to change.

This blog posting is labeled Musik for the Soul. I was going through my windows music library tonight and 2Pacs’ CD came up. It is always the first CD I see in my library, but I rarely click on it. Tonight I had to click on “So Many Tears.” I listened to the song and was extremely moved by 2Pac, Tupac, Makaveli- the writer, the rapper, the actor, the poet with many faces and many names. He was an extremely articulate writer… hmmmmm

His lyrics seem to be a constant reality for so many REAL people.

The lyrics go like this. What do you think?

“So Many Tears”

I shall not fear no man but God

Though I walk through the valley of death
I shed so many tears (if I should die before I wake)
Please God walk with me (grab a nigga and take me to Heaven)Back in elementary, I thrived on misery
Left me alone I grew up amongst a dyin breed
Inside my mind couldn’t find a place to rest
until I got that Thug Life tatted on my chest
Tell me can you feel me? I’m not livin in the past, you wanna last
Be tha first to blast, remember Kato
No longer with us he’s deceased
Call on the sirens, seen him murdered in the streets
Now rest in peace
Is there heaven for a G? Remember me
So many homies in the cemetery, shed so many tearsAhh, I suffered through the years, and shed so many tears..
Lord, I lost so many peers, and shed so many tearsNow that I’m strugglin in this business, by any means
Label me greedy gettin green, but seldom seen
And fuck the world cause I’m cursed, I’m havin visions
of leavin here in a hearse, God can you feel me?
Take me away from all the pressure, and all the pain
Show me some happiness again, I’m goin blind
I spend my time in this cell, ain’t livin well
I know my destiny is Hell, where did I fail?
My life is in denial, and when I die,
baptized in eternal fire I’ll shed so many tearsLord, I suffered through the years, and shed so many tears..
Lord, I lost so many peers, and shed so many tears

Now I’m lost and I’m weary, so many tears
I’m suicidal, so don’t stand near me
My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer
to embrace an early death, now there’s nothin left
There was no mercy on the streets, I couldn’t rest
I’m barely standin, bout to go to pieces, screamin peace
And though my soul was deleted, I couldn’t see it
I had my mind full of demons tryin to break free
They planted seeds and they hatched, sparkin the flame
inside my brain like a match, such a dirty game
No memories, just a misery
Paintin a picture of my enemies killin me, in my sleep
Will I survive til the mo’nin, to see the sun
Please Lord forgive me for my sins, cause here I come…

Lord, I suffered through the years (God) and shed so many tears..
God, I lost so many peers, and shed so many tears

Lord knows I.. tried, been a witness to homicide
Seen drivebys takin lives, little kids die
Wonder why as I walk by
Broken-hearted as I glance at the chalk line, gettin high
This ain’t the life for me, I wanna change
But ain’t no future right for me, I’m stuck in the game
I’m trapped inside a maze
See this Tanqueray influenced me to gettin crazy
Disillusioned lately, I’ve been really wantin babies
so I could see a part of me that wasn’t always shady
Don’t trust my lady, cause she’s a product of this poison
I’m hearin noises, think she fuckin all my boys, can’t take no more
I’m fallin to the floor; beggin for the Lord to let me in
to Heaven’s door — shed so many tears
(Dear God, please let me in)

Lord, I’ve lost so many years, and shed so many tears..
I lost so many peers, and shed so many tears
Lord, I suffered through the years, and shed so many tears..
God, I lost so many peers, and shed so many tears…

Very moving!!!!!!!!
We all suffer, but we are all given the final decision to change.
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Tupac was normal, just like us all. He went through many different controversial phases under public scrutiny. He did things that I do not accept such as the sagging and the california love video, and spreading hate throughout rap with the heated beef with east coast rappers . However, when he was in his right mind, her had many many great lyrics. I think in the end he realized that his greatest enemy was himself.
This song is like a great poem. We honor Edgar Allen Poe, but perhaps we should embrace these types of stories more- like the story told in this song is relevant to the men that we deal with everyday. This was not too long ago and these types of ills still exist. It’s nice when we find situations where the men have not been harmed so much or had to live a rough lifestyle, but the reality is, many of them do. How do you deal with that ladies? How do you deal with a man who has suffered and who has been abused by the world, his family, society, and himself? How do you love this man while maintaining your own identity? It’s a struggle. What do you think ladies?
Peace and Love,
Queen Duafe for African Essence

Does rejecting my natural hair mean that I am rejecting who I am?

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Came across the video courtesy of themochalife.wordpress.com via madnewsuk.com.

It’s a cool short video that expresses some very real viewpoints and realities on why women relax their hair. Check it out.

Peace & love,
Queen Duafe for AfricanEssence.wordpress.com

Cool Headdress

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Hi Queens!

Just wanted to give you some ideas on how to wear headdresses.

What do you think?

Black Roses: The Digital Movement. Respect Yourself.

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As of August 7, 2012, I am starting a project.

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Black Roses: The Digital Movement

Because women have got to learn how to respect and cherish their bodies.

by Shila Iris (aka Queen Duafe)

This is a movement to encourage women to love themselves by dressing with respect to their bodies and true identities.

Last week I was at work and a young lady entered wearing leggings and a camisole. She is 3 months pregnant. Her underwear were visible and her stomach hung over the leggings. It was actually quite offensive and no one knew she was pregnant. I know because I see her a lot. A camisole is an undershirt and it would be wise to wear a bra underneath it and a shirt on top of it. She had neither. Leggings are in the tights family and should be worn under long dresses or tunics. Both camisoles and leggings are used in exercise. They become very questionable when worn as outfits.

These things should not happen. We all have to learn that showing your body to the world is not the way to go!

She looked horrible. Of course people gawked at her in disbelief, but a lot of us accept this as the norm.

A pregnant woman should be loved and respected.

The child inside of her should be nurtured and respected.

Her body should be covered and worshiped privately.

I am so fed up with seeing women on display all the time.

I am not against tight clothes although they are not the best looking clothes if you ask me. This is because they have the tendency to show too much and most of the time they are tasteless attempts to showcase a body. Women with self-esteem know better.

Black Roses: The Digital Movement

From experience I can say, I am treated like the Queen that I am when I dress in clothes that are my correct size. Every now and again I may wear something fitting, Some men cannot handle this and I cannot handle the attention and the negative, predatory energy. I have learned how to dress things down because even though I am not trying to send a message, some men just take it that way. The type of men I don’t want around me.

But it’s not all about men. It’s really about YOU. Why do you think it is so necessary to show every crack and curve on your body? Do you really need that much attention, girlfriend? You know you’ll get it because lots of people don’t care, all they want is to connect with the flesh- never the mind, heart, spirit or soul. They just want to touch you. You let them impregnate you with bad energy, thoughts, and babies, and then starts the lifelong journey filled with drama and pain.

I am tired of us being afraid to say something about inappropriately dressed females. It has become the norm to see women’s bodies on display like horses. Zebra stripes painted on asses, we are not animals! That is something to be kept private, but I am seeing it everywhere.

INSTRUCTIONS

Please comment and share this link and picture with your friends and community. We have to stop encouraging our QUEENS to leave the house naked. We want to love and respect all women, but we cannot do that when we see your body on display. It ain’t cool and it ain’t cute- I don’t care what the music video told you. It is a time and place for everything. STOP PUTTING YOUR BODY IN THE STREETS! YOU ARE NOT A WHORE! YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT.

Black Roses: The Digital Movement by Shila Iris. Adorn Yourself Respectfully…

Post your pictures, showing how you can dress beautiful without being on display. Even if you show a little skin, there has to be a boundary.

Love Yourself Every Day!

Queen Duafe for African Essence & shilairis.wordpress.com

Black Roses: The Digital Movement by Shila Iris

Black Roses: The Digital Movement by Shila Iris

Queen Esperanza Spalding- Black Gold insert Nneka

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Have you seen her? Better yet, have you heard the voice of this charming young queen? Her spirit is so fly, this I cannot deny. I’ve seen some interviews and I have a few of her CDs. She has grown so much over the years. Practice, practice, practice.

She is the new thing in JAZZ music and is actually the one keeping it alive. This is 2012 jazz at its best! Her concerts sell out! She is at all the festivals. She plays the double bass and the bass guitar and she does it well. I have seen her playing what seemed to be some very difficult chords, while carrying a tune in voice. Amazing talent. I really hope she passes it on and inspires children to love art in music. The video below is awesome, I don’t know who the lady singing with her is, but they are both Black Gold.

As it pertains to your African Essence, this is an example of women being beautiful in their own skin. No globs of make-up, weave, tight clothes, none of that ridiculous mess. These sisters are truly inspirational and they look absolutely gorgeous. Definitely a style to take home. In the spirit of finding the true you, enjoy.

Peace & love,

Queen Duafe for African Essence

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Check out this bonus video. This girl is just wonderful! When I start to see myself in these women, I know we are great. I know we can ALL be great in what we do and pass positive messages of true identity on to one another. Let’s change the world through art queens! Peace.

Use art to nurture your soul…

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I recently had the honor and pleasure of visiting the James E. Lewis Museum of Art in Baltimore, MD. The museum is located on Morgan State University’s campus. I actually went down to share some knowledge via a poetic performance with an organization called My Brother, My Sister, and was offered a tour of the campus. It is absolutely amazing what Morgan is developing into, and I enjoyed being in the atmosphere of aspiring scholars. It had been a while since I last stepped foot on a HBCU campus. Talk about exciting! I myself, studied at Fisk University and the art museum there had been going through some hard times due to a very expensive collection of wonderful art that has been there for years. The school was facing financial difficulty and wanted to use the art to sort of “save” the campus. Having been a connoisseur of the fine collection after writing a paper or two about it, I personally did not want to see the collection go. Seeing Morgan’s museum gave me hope!

James E. Lewis

It is everything an art museum on a HBCU campus should be! It had a warm energy that penetrated my soul. There was color everywhere! Not the pastels of a normal art museums, but the deep earthy tones of Afrikan, Asian, & Latin American cultures. My radar immediately zoomed in on the ceremonial masks, the fertility statues, the mud cloths, the cubism paintings reminiscent of Jacob Lawrence who was inspired by the Harlem Renaissance- it was all so breath-taking. I enjoyed the recognition of Afrikan cultures the most as it spoke more to who and what I am. Where I live, there is no African American Museum of Art so when I am in a city that has one, I go for it!

I enjoy that a lot of African American artists are still painting from within. In a world where mixed-medium art is the trend, I find it quite refreshing to see painting and the mixing of colors and stroking of brushes. Art is in layers, just like the heart. Paint from the heart and not for money. 

The museum features both established and emerging artists so that says something for itself! You don’t have to die to get your art in a museum. I enjoyed that it was multicultural and found it important to include art from around the world because students should have a taste of many cultures. This can create a more well-rounded person with a more stable identity, something that African American students are in great need [of].

Speaking of identity.

As this pertains to your African Essence, it’s all about choosing your identity. Identity comes from within. Seeing this art exhibit spoke to something inside of me. The colors reminded me of something I had seen in a past life. I seek culture. I cannot live without knowing Afrika. I know that I descend from this continent and honestly it hurts sometimes to know you are from a place where you don’t even have real access to. Forever stolen, I try to cope. Without knowledge and acknowledgement of where you are from, your spirit will be constantly torn and confused and you will constantly self-hate. I heard an African American say the other day “I can’t stand Black people.” Sadly this is not the first time I heard this. Every time I hear it, I am in awe. I ask, how can you make a blanket comment like that and claim to love yourself? I know there are a lot of mistakes being made by the African American community, with the whole buying into the media and ignoring our own identities, selling material and verbal bulls*#@ to our youth, etc., but this is not reason to hate. Especially going around saying this in front of whomever! That’s nonsense.

Let’s live with the mindset, “if you are not part of the solution, than you are part of the problem.” People who hate like this are obviously part of the problem. It’s like those African and African American people who aren’t attracted to their own race, who actually say this out loud. No one says that you cannot cross cultures when dating but to say that you aren’t attracted to someone who looks like you is worthy of much shame. When one makes uncalculated comments like this, there is reason to believe that that person is having an identity crisis. Self-hate is so prevalent in our culture.

The museum on Morgan States campus is definitely something to visit. In addition to having a great art museum, they also have a great new library. It is what we call “state of the art.” It is still in its new phases, still in the process of acquiring a real collection, but I am sure it will get there. After seeing all this, getting a $30 ticket for parking on the street in front of the campus didn’t feel so bad!

Peace & Love,

Queen Duafe for African Essence

Juneteenth Celebration in Cleveland, Ohio

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Hello my PEOPLE!

Happy African American Music Appreciation Month

Words connect and music unites us! Check me out on

Saturday, June 16 from 12-5 p.m. performing poetry with The Griot Project and Umojah Nation Reggae Band 

@ the Art & Soul of Buckeye Community Park located on Buckeye Road @ East 118 Street, Cleveland, Ohio.

Peace & Love,

Queen Duafe for African Essence

www.warriorspulse.com

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This is some advertising I am doing for this great website www.warriorspulse.com. 

The creator is a native of Memphis, TN who is now residing in Cleveland, OH. He is an “acting” community activist, aspiring philanthropist, professional librarian specializing in community advocacy, digital archiving, and library management and collection management, a fun-loving and entertaining dad, a professional drummer of over 20 years currently jamming with Umojah Nation Reggae Band and a djembe player with Passport Project. He plays drums, djembe, and percussion for The Griot Project and is a writer and scholar always growing and always mentoring and advocating for the youth as well as men.

The symbols you see are african adinkra. These symbols are wonderful and if you would like to learn more about them, click above. This is a great book you can order if you really want to learn:

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The Adinkra Dictionary by W. Bruce Willis

In the ad, I am bowing down to the warrior. I believe in submitting to great men. It does not mean you become weak, it means you become stronger, knowing what your natural role as a woman is. It’s a level of respect that I strongly follow. I want my man to be strong. In the words of the late great Amy Winehouse:

“You should be stronger than me.”

Tell me what you think.

Peace,

Queen Duafe for African Essence

African Head Wrapping

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I love the art of African head wrapping and I will take some pics of myself in the near future because I do it quite often. Today I brought these fabrics on sale at JoAnns Fabrics for the sole purpose of head wrapping:

Silky

Multi Color Fabric- Sort of a sweater material

Animal Print Fabric, Silky Feeling

What do you think?

This is the head wrap I will be trying this upcoming week. I like this video. Check it out.

Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater and beyond…

I recently attended the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theatre presentation in Cleveland, Ohio on Sunday, May 6 at the State Theater. It was awesome! A friend and I had discussed going two months previous to the day, but then I got the Sunday jitters and didn’t plan to go. He called me a few hours before the event and asked if I was going. I was chillin! But the thought of not going was making me super anxious. When he called, I was actually pretty happy. He insisted that I go. I immediately got online and purchased a ticket in the balcony for 40 bucks. I was ready and happy and feeling blessed that they even had tickets left! I got dressed, and arrived downtown at exactly 3:00 p.m. That was curtain time! I am always determined not to pay for parking, so I found a spot 2 blocks away, jumped out and ran down to the theater. It only took a minute to grab my ticket from will call and I sat down at 3:08 p.m. It was like they were holding the curtain for me! As soon as I sat my behind in my seat, the lights dimmed and the curtain went up! I just knew I was in for a treat. Timing is everything, so they say, right?

I’m no dancer, so I may not know the correct terminology, but the show opener was a 22 minute long dance that gave definition to modern and  African dance. It was so smooth. The crew had so much energy and love to give to the audience- my heart beat fast. I am so thankful that I didn’t miss this 1st dance because it definitely gave me chills.

I counted 18 dancers- male & female. Might have been more. They wore the clothes that a dancer practices in- loved it (costumes by Jon Taylor). I could see the movement of their limbs and I imagined myself in their positions. I imagined my body moving like theirs. Each dancer was like a mini ocean or a mini stream, flowing, rushing, bringing in tides and tearing down damns. The hip hop undertone of the dance was uplifting. This dance was called “Home,” choreographed by Rennie Harris. Wow Rennie! You are excellent (check out his website). Nina Flagg was the Assistant Choreographer for Home. Much love to Mr. Harris and Ms. Flagg as they produced an awe-inspiring opening dance.

Choreographer

Assistant Choreographer

I understand that Judith Jamison was a collaborative choreographer for this dance. I absolutely love the thought of Judith Jamison. I remember being at Fisk University (where I graduated from in 2006) and seeing a picture of her in a book. It was this one…

I had to have the picture! I took it out the book and tucked it in my bag and went back to my dorm. That wasn’t very honest, but I did it. I had never seen anything like it. I still have it.  By the way Judith attended Fisk for 3 semesters before transferring to a dance academy. She wouldn’t be proud that I took the picture out of the library!

The 2nd dance was performed by a single dancer- Michael Francis McBride. It was totally relevant in a way that was exhilarating. He wore dancer-tight red pants that allowed us to see his every jerk. The music was funky. You might find this track really awkward, but he totally did his thing and made it work. The music reminded me of 80s music- people took lots of risk. It was nice.

The 3rd dance, was comprised of 6 male dancers. It was called the Hunt and choreographed by Robert Battle.

Acclaimed Choreographer

The dancers wore long skirts that resembled a sort-of Japanese warrior attire. It started with an upbeat African track called Jungle Jazz. What a great name! Definitely check out that track. You can only imagine what a dancer would do to this! Jungle Jazz transitioned in another track performed by the same artist called Black Bull. Really great choice of music. It reminded me of a Saul Williams track I heard earlier this year at a Saul Williams concert @ the Grog Shop in Cleveland Hts, OH. Saul has this homemade drum that he rocks with. It’s very creative and it sounds good. Both the dance and the Saul are tribal mixed with funk. Adrenaline rushing!

Saul Williams-Poet Artist

The dance combos were extremely on beat. These men danced for about 12 minutes. They made use of the entire stage The lighting added dimensions to the act. It changed about 8 times during the hunt, each correlating with the movements of the dancers. Great job Burke Wilmore!

Lighting by Burke Wilmore.

What seemed to be the 2nd half of the show, opened on a more spiritual and religious tone. The negro spirituals took me back to my days of sitting in the chapel at Fisk, listening to the Jubilee Singers belt out songs that took a lot training to perform!

A female dancer in all white, Alicia Graf Mack, took the stage in all white performing the dance- Journey. How pleasant was she? Very.

This dance somehow transitioned into a formation reminiscent of a church choir. The dancers were dressed in earth tones of brown, which made them stand out and blend with the lighting. This sort-of contradicting effect was magnificent. It was a vintage look. I believe Nicola Cernovitch was responsible for these lighting effects.

Lighting by Nicola Cernovitch

There was a duet with a male and female dancer that was very strong. They got to show off some very difficult dance moves that the audience loved. A single male dancer in all white took the stage he did the same, performing dance moves that only 10,000 hours of practice would allow.

Form this, props were introduced on the set. The dancers made use of every corner of the stage. They climbed on tops of stools, spun umbrellas, created water by running long blue and white ribbons horizontally across the stage. They ended, dressed in yellow dresses and black suits.

One word can describe this experience- extraordinary. It was strange, teriffic, beyond belief- all traits of true art.

Mr. Ailey’s legend is an amazing experience. I loved to see so many young girls in the audience. It was a performance children could really benefit from seeing insomuch that it showed the professionalism behind art. I got some really great Alvin Ailey paraphenalia from the show and a bag with a picture of the 2012 company members.

These are the shirts I purchased:

2012 Yellow Season Tee AIL-YL-SEASON-TEE

Ailey 2011 Red Logo Tee AIL-RED-LOGO-TEE

And the complimentary bag I received with the purchases:

This performance made me want to go home and watch The Wiz!

By the way, my seat in the balcony was perfect. I sat in Row U, Seat 605. It put me in the center of my row so I could clearly see the stage. I felt like I was meant to be there at that exact time in that exact seat.

Peace,

Queen Duafe for African Essence

What is African Art? Politically correct or not?

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Recently I read the book Natural Fashion: Tribal Decoration from Africa by Hans Silvester.

Actually, there wasn’t much to read, it was more a visual exploration of the Surma and Mursi tribes of East Africa. I am not sure how to feel about the book. As much as I would like to say that it was a great book, I think it is just an exploitation of culture. I recognize that this culture is special and unknown to many Americans, but what makes it so artistic and fashionable? It is the everyday lifestyles and traditions of people in the Omo valley. The author says that Kenya and Sudan are two of the “wildest” places in in Africa. Really? Wild? So, because they have been able to hold on to their original traditions and heritage, they are wild? Because they think of the body as a temple and adorn it as such, rather than glorifying it as a sex symbol, they are wild? One thing he was right about is that their way of living is threatened by conflict and tourism. They know that their era and days of independence is coming to an end. I believe that Eurocentricity will find its way to their lands if it hasn’t already.

Moreover, Hans, deficient of a definition of what he means by wild, I have to assume that he was referring to the manners and actions that he photographed the people. There are pictures of them in the nude, bodies draped in leaves, painted with the excretions of plants and berries, and mud. They live from the land, taking advantage of the elements that surround them. Is this what you mean by wild?

Playing devil’s advocate and I do mean devil’s advocate, I can appreciate that he visually recorded a culture that may be lost. Without record, the civilization will be lost forever. However, I’m sure it doesn’t have to be lost if it weren’t for people exploiting it, and trying to steal the resources of the land. So overall I repeat, it doesn’t have to be lost, but I am sure covetous explorers will attempt to steal it. What Hans does is tell a pictorial story of a tribe whose culture is about to be raped. The idea of “African art” fascinates me because it’s only categorized this way because it has become something “special” in the West because they have stolen the idea of it. It is just people’s everyday traditions!

As a female who sports ethnic attire, I am too, categorized as Afrocentric, having the inclination to wear things that speak more to my roots. This is who I am, nothing special! It’s what I feel in my spirit. I don’t do it for fashion purposes or to be recognized. I wake up feeling like a part of me has been lost, stolen, and naturally my spirit try’s to find what vanished from my heritage generations ago. So when I wear mud or kenti cloth, paint my face with black and white dots just to have dinner, it’s just me being what I was meant to be. No, I do not want to be a model for it. One thing, I want children to know that there was a culture before this Eurocentric culture that we live every day. At the rate of the decline of the American education system, we cannot rely on it to teach our children who they are and where they come from. That’s my goal. I just couldn’t enjoy this book because I’ve already seen these pictures in my dreams. Please understand that this is only truth. I travel to many different countries in my dreams. Ethiopia, Sudan, & Kenya were among them.

Peace & Love,

Tobacco and Slavery

“How could educated, deeply religious Europeans trade in human flesh, as casually as they traded sugar and rice?” They traded black bodies like staples, I say!

I read Booker T. Washington’s autobiography Up From Slavery, in 2003 as part of my course studies at Fisk University. I love autobiographies because they allow me to communicate with my ancestors. By hearing their stories, I can hold the history close to my heart. I use these stories to help make my own story and life better. History is my anchor. I learn.

I am in the process of watching a documentary called Up From Slavery. It is packed with info that just makes me feel some type of way. I’ve watched and read accounts of history like it before, such as Alex Haley’s Roots, and I will continue to seek out such information because I enjoy learning about what happened (not so long ago might I remind you) to my great grandparents and their parents.

This film speaks to who I am. My grandparents are deceased so I have no storytellers left in my family. For that, I am sad. So I have to do lots of reading to keep myself up on the history.  I loved to listen to their stories when they were alive. Mostly my maternal grandfather. I miss him so much. However, I will keep the few stories he was able to tell close to my heart. They rose up from slavery.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yuX4CLBR_Yk

THIS IS AN EPIC STRUGGLE… honestly, sometimes, I cry.

Up From Slavery is a 5 hour documentary that takes you on a journey of the history of Africans in America. Great information.

I have 4 more hours to go, but thus far, I have re-learned this: tobacco was one of the main reasons why Europeans needed slaves. They needed slaves to come to America and work on tobacco plantations. The African slave was especially important because he already possessed the skills it took to grow these crops and he looked different from the natives, making him easily identifiable. There was a high demand for tobacco in the 1670s and the number of slaves in VA heavily increased because of this. From the beginning of our history in America, we have been enslaved by TOBACCO. It kills me to see us fiend for cigarettes. Knowing the history of the nasty plant, I will never smoke it! Let me say it again, I will NEVER smoke it. It was used in the process of enslaving the African. !**%$ tobacco! It’s not for me and I hope you can understand that it is not for you either. Brown teeth, funky breath, blackened lips- why would you want it? Clothes, car, and house smell bad. You hair even stinks from it. I cannot stand the stuff. I’d rather smoke the illegal option, but I won’t smoke at all- it’s really no point. Same with drinking. Why do we need alcohol in our blood? It manipulates your conscious, encouraging you to make really bad mistakes and say and do things that are unnecessary. What are you drinking for? To take your mind away from reality? Erykah says: “teach your children wisdom, reality today. so they can live tomorrow.” I am saying this to say that REALITY is important and you should never hide from it. Deal with what is happening. What do you get from a cig? Does it calm your nerves. Oh. is that what you think? Well, find a better option. Did you know that exercise can calm your nerves? Yeah, try that. Wine is healthier than liquor. If you like the taste of the grape, try wine as a much better option. Might I suggest what they call two buck chuck, Trader Joe’s wine. It is actually really good to be $3.79. Yes, it’s that cheap for a bottle. The cabernet is awesome!

The point is TOBACCO sucks! Don’t kill yourself smoking one of the very things that helped to enslave our ancestors. Don’t be a slave to tobacco.

THIS IS AN EPIC STRUGGLE… honestly, sometimes, I cry. I cry because it’s not over. Wherever I go, I feel it. Lots of people don’t even realize that some of the things they say are disrespectful and hurtful. They think that I should get over this. My response: If you are asking me to forget, then you are asking me to die. Walk in my shoes. Bet you couldn’t. I wish I could forget, but the world won’t let me. Just tonight, my friends and I were in a restaurant and some white people were pointing at us with their eyes and we heard them making rude comments. Yes, this is still alive! I almost couldn’t believe how these people were behaving. It’s really silly, but the fact is, racism is still alive . It’s subliminal in many ways, but it’s all just the same.

THIS IS AN EPIC STRUGGLE… honestly, sometimes, I cry.

Coexist? Diversify? It’s hard. I’d much rather everyone got along, but those people who hate hearing about slavery and racism are setting us back. Why do you think it is OK to remain ignorant about what happened to Black people in America? Just in the 1960s we were being beaten with clubs, sprayed with water hoses, bit by dogs, punched by police. NOOOOO! The history must be told. I see it happening still, but more subliminally, if not in your face! We are enslaving ourselves by not telling the story and sweeping it under the rug like it didn’t happen. Do you see what is happening now? Our children are in a state of confusion. They are lost without the lessons history teaches.

Stop asking me to forget. Stop saying that I talk about it too much, No the hell I don’t! Walk in my shoes. Experience life from where I am standing. Racism is still here. Hate is still around. How bad do I wish it wasn’t? Really bad. But there it is, surfacing in such evil ways. Segregation, mis-education, no occupation, world inflation! We are selling ourselves out for material things that do not matter. Drugs, alcohol, tobacco, sex every where we look! SLAVERY IS STILL ALIVE. LET’S KILL IT OR DIE TRYING.

Peace & Love